Now first dates isn't something that I have a lot of experience in, however I've got a few tips that could help any singleton to have a successful first date.
- Don't stress about your date, yes I know first dates are a big thing because it helps with the whole first impressions thing.
- Dress appropriately for whatever your first date is. I find personally if you don't wear something normally then don't make out there your something that you aren't with your clothing.
- Don't change your personality on the date or just before a date because you think that the person you are going on a date with might not like it.
- If you both share your a hobby and you are able to do it as a first date then do it. It's a prefect way to break the ice.
- Leave your phone alone on the date. If you are constantly checking your phone during the date then it will give off the vibe that you aren't interested in that person. Unless you are really not into the person on the date then carry away to your hearts content.
- When it comes to texting each other after your date, there's no rules on who should text first. You know what if you like them and then text them. Don't be afraid to push yourself out there and show someone that you like people.
- Offer to pay for the date or say let's go dutch on it. Some guys/girls don't mind paying for the date from the get go. However out of politeness and it shows that you can look after yourself and pay for things. If they say they will take this one and you have a second date with them then you can pay for that one. Take it in turns.
- Remember to follow up your date with a "thank you" or a "it was nice to see you" text. It will reassure the person you had a date with that it was a good date. Now I don't mean this in a stalker-ish type way, but a small text to following morning or later than night is a good thing.
- Don't dominate the conversation. Share conversation between you's, ask questions to keep the conversation going. Have banter and jokes, show that you care in what they have to say, listen intently.
Well there's a few of my first date tips, if you have any more then share them because someone else might find them useful.
Kim
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